Secrets Hideaway Resort and Spa is the culmination of James & Carmen’s desire to create a Lifestyle resort, for Swingers, by Swingers. With an intimate understanding of the Lifestyle atmosphere, the King & Queen of Swing started out with “Hedo Events and began throwing exceptional Lifestyle parties at various venues throughout Florida. Q. What the heck is AltPlayGround? AltPlayGround, or APG as our friends call us, is a quirky, slightly irreverant website for people in the swinging lifestyle.